I just recently passed the one month clean mark and I must say that things are looking up. Granted, life is no less capricious than previously. I’m still dealing with physical and mental health issues as well as trying to get my life in order. It IS happening though. Which is something I was never able to do when I was drinking and drugging.
First, I’ll delve into the health issues a bit. My arthritis and tendonitis are still raging and my hypertension has come back with a vengeance. I had to discontinue my ADHD medication due to my pressure being dangerously high. I’m on meds and have leveled out, but I am no longer able to work as a busser and barback. The fatigue from the meds plus the pain in my hands and forearms was simply too intense to push through. I was getting vicious headaches and feeling like I was going to puke or pass out working in the heat. One day when my amazing boss came in and I felt like death I leveled with her and said ‘What do you think I should do?’. She was really cool about the whole thing and moved me to hosting. It’s less money but I’m so grateful to still have a job.
The bright spot to all this is that I soldiered through it long enough to claw my way out of the financial hole I was in while I was using. My Doctor has been advising me to find a less labor intensive job for over a year so I’m sure he’ll be thrilled when I tell him about all this in two weeks. However, there’s more to the health issues than I’ve so far mentioned.
The pain in my hands has been getting worse and more frequent. I’ve been screened many times, but due to new developments (morning stiffness, nodules on knuckles on both hands) he ordered more blood work, xrays and a referral to a Rheumatologist once again. I’m seeing both doctors on the 24th. I’m not jumping to conclusions but I am a bit worried. I don’t know, we’ll see. As vague as that is it’s the best I’ve got right now.
All these issues aside, I am enjoying life more than I ever thought was possible. I’ve made some new friends in NA and have a great sponsor who’s really easy to talk to. I’ve begun working the steps and am finding it challenging but illuminating. I’m going to NA meetings every day and putting myself in the middle of it all. When I find myself alone and irritable I pick up the phone or read recovery literature. I’m building a support network and dealing with life on it’s own terms as well as I can.
I’m trying to remind myself daily of how much love I have in my life and everything I’m grateful for. Like Death Metal, my Boyfriend, our animals, my family, my friends and most of all, the fellowship of Narcotics Anonymous. Sometimes I can hardly believe any of this is real. This is not to say that I don’t have bad days or still think about getting drunk and high. I’m just getting better at managing my feelings in a constructive manner. I have a home group and am beginning to get involved in service. It’s really awesome. Next month they have me chairing a meeting. How’d that happen? 🙂
I already had a decent relationship with a higher power but The fellowship has simply galvanized it. I feel it working in my life daily. Am I insane? Quite. Doesn’t make me wrong. I have my life back and am not about to give it up.
Thank you, NA. Thank you for slowly but surely restoring me to something approaching real sanity.